I know that I am not the only woman who feels guilty if the house is messy.   I don’t feel I can sit and write, or plan my next blog post or adventure, if my home is not how I like it.  I realise that some mums can work and play around a messy home but I am just not one of these mums. This week, I watched ‘The Biggest Loser’.   I had said that I wasn’t going to watch the show at all this year, but now that the contestants have stopped whinging and whining about exercise,  accepted the trainers are there to help them and push…